Bryant Spear's Time line


My parents were married

June 1984

My middle sister Lore'al was born.

December 27, 1987

I was born

October 15, 1991

My family fled from Piedmont, Alabama to a battered women's shelter.

April 1993

My family moved to Nashville, TN with my grandmother

December 1993

My parents were divorced

September 1994

My family moved into our new house on Cherokee place

October 1999

I started 3rd grade at Una Elementary.

October 1999

I met one of my best friends there.

My nephew was born.

October 22, 2000

Amari Jaden Meddling

Met 2 of my closest friends at Wharton Middle School

August 2002

Cheered at Margaret Allen Middle School

August 2005 - May 2006

My middle sister Lore'al graduated from high school.

May 22, 2006

I started high school.

August 2006

East Literature Magnet School

I was sexually assaulted in school.

October 11, 2007

4 days before my 16th birthday

I turned 16.

October 15, 2007

I started counseling with a Psychologist.

November 2007 - January 2008

I started working with Planned Parenthood as a Peer Educator.

February 2008 - May 2010

I still volunteer with them.

I got my 1st car!

June 6, 2009

Her name is BB, a 1993 Honda Civic.

I graduated high school.

May 22, 2010

I started college at TSU.

August 2010

Joined LYLAS Inc.

November 2010

Started dating my future husband.


We got our 1st apartment.

December 2011 - August 2012

We bought a car!

August 25, 2012

Terrence and I co-own the car.

2nd apartment

September 2012

One of my closest male friends from middle school was shot and killed.

December 20, 2012

(Desmine Watts) I was devastated.

We celebrated our 2 year anniversary.

February 14, 2013

Terrence Grafton

Be completely fluent in Spanish

May 2014

Graduation from TSU with a degree and 2 minors

May 2014

Psychology degree with a minor in Spanish and Women Studies

Start working 1st Full time salaried job

July 2014

Using all degrees

Make - up and bar-tend license

May 2015

Married by 2015

July 2015

To Terrence Grafton

Own 1st house by December 2015

December 2015