Duffy

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Duffy as "Irish Colleen" in Far Away Places musical @ Serra High School

1936

ERIK ERIKSON PSYCHOSOCIAL STAGES

1937

Birth

Sal loved her "little bit of fluffy duff"

1938

STAGE 1. TRUST vs. MISTRUST

1938

Carol Anne Moroney Born@ Mills Hospital San Mateo

1938

STAGE 2. AUTONOMY vs. DOUBT

1939

Mom was "always there for me"

1940

Duffy played in the backyard with Sally in Burlingame

1940

Sara Elizabeth "Sally" born

1940

Red's Birth

1942

Sally's death

1942

STAGE 3. INITIATIVE vs. GUILT

1942

Godfather/Franciscan Priest Uncle Donny's inspiring letters

1943

Tom transferred Duffy to Notre Dame High School

1944

STAGE 4. INDUSTRY vs. INFERIORITY

1944

Mary's birth -Duffy excited another sister is born

1945

Duffy in "Mardi Gras Spectacular" @ Serra High School

1946

Notre Dame de Namur University

1946

Private Voice Lessons for next 8 years

1951

STAGE 5. IDENTITY vs. ROLE CONFUSION

1951

Allowed to date boys

1953

STAGE 6. INTIMACY vs. ISOLATION

1957

Dated Ted next 1.5 years

1958

Graduated Bachelor's of Arts English Literature Notre Dame de Namur University

06/11/1960

Soprano Carol Moroney gives music recital

06/18/1960

Married Lloyd Theodore Scheley Jr. "Renaissance Man" and Chef to All

06/25/1960

STAGE 7. GENERATIVITY vs. STAGNATION

1968

Mother of 6 children: Chris, Ted, Michael, Kessy, Jenny, Amy

1970

Enjoyed 20 years of motherhood including cooking, field trips...

1971

Customer Service Rep. @ COIT from 1982-2009

1972

Ted diagnosed with cancer

1996

Duffy diagnosed with lung cancer

1997

Beloved husband Ted's death

1999

STAGE 8. EGO INTEGRITY vs. DESPAIR

1999

Duffy feels totally present with her 12 grandchildren

2002