JL

Major Fights

General Bickering

June 2002 - August 2002

College Graduation

12/05/2003

We had a huge fight on graduation, I freaked out and was calling names to everyone.

Name Calling Starts

January 2004

House Issues

October 2005

Having Kids

June 2006

Money Issues

February 2009

Don't Remember

February 2011

Huge

04/20/2013

Relationship

Online Friendship

09/15/1999 - 12/21/2001

After meeting in an online chatroom about aviation, we struck up a friendship, and began chatting on Yahoo and AIM for a little over 2 years. luvsisterhazel was my favorite thing to see online of all of my online friends, but it wasn't until I knew she would be joining me in person that I thought any more of it.

Long Distance Dating

12/21/2001 - 09/01/2002

We met on December 21st, 2001. It was originally just a meeting between two people who happened to know each other and who happened to be in the same place together, but I know going into it that it would turn into more. We agreed to date exclusively and be long-distance, with quite a few visits along the way. Somewhere in the middle, we discussed getting married while she was down for a visit, and decided that we wanted to, but should wait longer to make it official.

Dating IRL

09/02/2002 - 12/20/2002

The shortest part of our relationship, we were in the same city and dating each other. We spent most of our time together, did everything together. I bought her an engagement ring in December, asked her father for permission, and then we were engaged.

Engagement

12/21/2002 - 05/30/2003

We were engaged for a short time, not necessarily by design, but partially to accommodate everyone in our families. Because of our short courtship, we had originally intended to have a longer engagement, more on the order of 9-11 months, but circumstances changed that. College, work, LM's family situation, finances, etc.

Married

05/31/2003 - 01/17/2015

Separated

01/17/2015 - 06/30/2015

Officially Divorced

Jul 1, 2015

Location - Jonathan

College w/Rommates

09/01/1999 - 05/01/2003

I lived on campus and off, always with a roommate, until a few weeks before we got married. We got an apartment together before she left for Alabama so that we could come home after the wedding to an established house.

DAB

05/01/2003 - 12/20/2003

Our first apartment, I moved in right before we got married, and we moved out when we moved to Atlanta to take a job.

SS

12/21/2003 - 10/01/2004

14th

10/02/2004 - 08/01/2005

MH

08/02/2005 - 03/01/2006

I moved to FL before Lindsay to take a job and let her finish school and graduate.

WPB

03/01/2006 - 10/31/2007

Jupiter

11/01/2007 - 01/31/2010

SUA

02/01/2010 - 05/31/2011

NOR X

06/01/2011 - 03/15/2013

House

03/16/2013 - 01/17/2015

Bought a House

Mom's

Jan 18, 2015 - 06/30/2015

Location - Lindsay

Alabama @ Home

09/01/1999 - 09/01/2002

Living @ Home with Parents

CWR

09/01/2002 - 05/01/2003

One year in the dorms, and then back home before the wedding.

.

05/02/2003 - 06/01/2003

Lindsay living at home until the wedding.

DB

06/02/2003 - 12/20/2003

Our first apartment. Lindsay moved in after the honeymoon, and moved out with me to Atlanta.

SS

12/21/2003 - 10/01/2004

14th

10/02/2004 - 08/01/2005

MH

08/02/2005 - 05/01/2006

Lindsay stayed in Atlanta for 2 months to graduate.

WPB

05/01/2006 - 10/31/2007

Jupiter

11/01/2007 - 01/31/2010

SUA

02/01/2010 - 03/01/2011

G

03/01/2011 - 05/31/2011

NOR X

06/01/2011 - 03/15/2013

House

03/16/2013 - 06/30/2015

Work - Jonathan

Outback

09/01/1999 - 12/20/2003

College ERAU

09/01/1999 - 12/05/2003

AIG

01/03/2004 - 03/01/2006

Jeteffect

03/03/2006 - 10/01/2009

1Park

05/01/2009 - 10/01/2009

Masters-UWF

08/01/2009 - 12/31/2009

Aspen Key

10/01/2009 - 06/01/2011

AIG

06/01/2011 - 05/31/2015

Work - Lindsay

C

09/01/2002 - 01/01/2003

Carrabba's
Left because of their working on Sunday policy

C: ERAU

09/01/2002 - 12/05/2003

Started at ERAU, left when I got a job.

Outback

01/01/2003 - 04/30/2006

C: GSU

06/01/2004 - 04/25/2006

Transferred to Georgia State. Graduated.
Needed to transfer with Aviation credits, but also needed to save money because no longer had outside help on tuition.

JJ

05/01/2006 - 09/01/2006

Boehringer-Ingelheim

10/01/2006 - 04/30/2014

1099 Medical Sales

04/30/2014 - 05/31/2015

Church Attendance

FBD

January 2001 - October 2002

Jonathan was attending First Baptist College program on Saturday nights and Church on Sunday morning. When Lindsay moved to town, she went a few times, but did not like it, and so we stopped going.

SD UM

February 2003 - July 2003

South Daytona United Methodist. Where we did out pre-marital counseling along with Uncle Bob. We attended during our counseling, Lindsay was more comfortable having grown up Methodist, and they were a reformed congregation with a modern service. After we got married, we drifted away and one day just stopped going.

CF

December 2007 - January 2008

Gen. Jup.

February 2008 - August 2009

Grace

March 2010 - March 2011

V

January 2012 - June 2012

Various Churches:
12 Stone, The Bridge, Stonecreek, Cumberland CC

Gen Norcross

July 2012 - 01/17/2015

Counseling

Don

02/01/2005 - 12/01/2005

Chuck

05/01/2008 - 12/01/2008

Chuck

11/01/2009 - 12/31/2009

J&G

09/01/2012 - 02/01/2013

Kids

M

07/15/2007 - 08/25/2007

PLMS

01/03/2008 - 10/03/2008

Layla

10/03/2008 - 05/31/2015

PLDS

01/14/2010 - 10/13/2010

Luke

10/13/2010 - 05/31/2015

Major Stressors

LMS Start School

September 2002

JDS Grad

12/05/2003

Young Divorce

04/01/2005 - 12/31/2005

Nana

July 2005

LMS Grad

04/30/2006

L Job Loss

September 2006

Renter Eviction

November 2006

Renter Eviction

March 2007

RLY Wedding

December 2007

LM

05/01/2008 - 09/01/2008

Income Loss

January 2009

LM

03/01/2009 - 05/01/2009

Renters Left

March 2009

Working 2 Jobs

May 2009 - September 2009

Seitz Divorce

09/22/2009 - 04/30/2010

Fertility

October 2009 - January 2010

Foreclosure

January 2010

LM

05/31/2010 - 12/19/2010

Surgery

12/20/2010 - 01/20/2011

LM

12/01/2011 - 01/31/2012