Alice Withrow gives birth to illegitimate daughter, Lillie in West Virginia.. most likely Greenbrier County. I have not currently found any birth documents for Lillie.
I have however, talked to a few granddaughters of Lillie's. They said that Lillie never talked about her childhood. Obviously it was rough growing up the stigma of being illegitimate, but also being abandoned made it doubly hard.
Lillie and Bertha met up with their half siblings late in life. It's currently unknown how they found out about each other, or who made the first move. However, Iris Hurt Smith, Lillie's Granddaughter, did say that Lillie wasn't enthused with the idea of meeting her half siblings. So we know she didn't start the search. It's also believed that Lillie knew Alice lived in Arkansas. Lillie's daughter (Grace) always wanted to meet her grandmother, and knew they didn't live too far away. Just a couple states over. But Lillie would never let her.