CSW & RLJ

Relationship

Courtship

09/01/2010 - 01/01/2011

CSW and RLJ meet at Cary dog park and embark on a normal and healthy relationship.

This intimate phase of the relationship consists of general getting-to-know-you activities, such as going on dates, attending church, and meeting each other's family and friends.

Up until the engagement, RLJ and CSW are spending time together daily.

Christmas Dinner

10/26/2010

RLJ invites CSW to Christmas dinner with his family

New Year's Brunch

01/01/2011

RLJ meets CSW's long-time friends at annual New Year's Day brunch

Engagement

01/09/2011 - 04/02/2011

RLJ proposes to CSW

KY Trip

02/03/2011

Trip to KY for an engagment party

RLJ meets CSW's family

Honeymoon

04/02/2011 - 04/05/2011

Three-day honeymoon to the mountains in western NC

Marriage

04/02/2011 - 10/10/2012

CSW and RLJ get married

Surgery

04/22/2011 - 04/26/2011

CSW stays at bedside throughout hospitalization

Post-surgery Assistance

04/27/2011 - 05/14/2011

CSW assists RLJ with daily routine

Hilton Head Vacation

06/26/2011 - 06/30/2011

RLJ and CSW are joined by CSW's family

Wedding Hosting

10/12/2011 - 10/15/2011

CSW and RLJ house guests and host pre- and post-wedding activities at home

Biltmore Trip

10/17/2011 - 10/19/2011

Joint vacation with RLJ's sister and brother-in-law

Testosterone Injections

11/01/2011

Testosterone therapy is known to possibly cause adverse psychological and behavioral side effects

Biltmore Trip #2

11/23/2011 - 11/27/2011

Joint vacation with CSW's sister and brother-in-law

Family Christmas

12/24/2011

CSW and RLJ host CSW's family for Christmas gathering

Family Christmas

12/26/2011

CSW and RLJ host RLJ's family for Christmas gathering

Political Argument

12/31/2011

New Year's Brunch

01/02/2012

RLJ attends annual New Year's Day brunch with long-time friends of CSW

Dinner with Friends

02/12/2012

at Neo China

Bridge

02/15/2012

couples' bridge

Concert

03/30/2012

CSW and RLJ attend concert at DPAC

KY Vacation

03/31/2012 - 04/09/2012

Easter vacation to visit CSW's family

Trip cut short due to RLJ suffering illness

Bridge

05/08/2012

Couples' bridge

Separation letter received in mail

Separation Letter

05/09/2012

RLJ gives separation letter to CSW, asking CSW to vacate home

Bridge

05/26/2012

CSW and RLJ share their last couples' bridge game

Home

Combining Households

02/01/2011

CSW and RLJ agree CSW will move into RLJ’s house, bringing furniture to help with much-needed updates and improvements

Mansion Pictures

10/20/2011

Being so pleased with redecorations and improvements thus far, RLJ emails family members, dubbing the refurbished home as "the Hollowoak Mansion"

Home Plans

02/01/2012

Plans are made to further improve home to prepare for market

It was agreed that--after one year's time--the current house would be sold, and a new one would be purchased together

Home Improvement

03/01/2012 - 05/01/2012

Home improvements and landscaping commence

CSW finds contractors

Counseling

Mediation/counseling with Minister

03/01/2012

Argument concering lottery ticket prompts secrecy

Secrecy prompts visit to minister

List of marriage counselor recommendations obtained

Marriage Counseling

04/23/2012

CSW and RLJ meet with minister-recommended counselor

A later meeting is scheduled for 04/30/2012

Marriage Counseling

04/30/2012

CSW and RLJ have separate meetings - RLJ at 3:00 and CSW at 4:00

At 4:00, CSW learns that RLJ is uninterested in reconciliation and he has paid attorney to begin divorce proceedings earlier that morning

CSW receives foot surgery

RLJ bullies CSW into signing state income tax refund

Harassment

Lottery Ticket Debacle

03/01/2012

Argument over habitual lottery ticket purchases

Phone Abuse

03/28/2012

CSW verbally abused by RLJ's daughter

Verbal Attacks

04/01/2012 - 10/10/2012

RLJ tells CSW his kids do not like her

RLJ calls CSW stupid and frequently brags of his 145 IQ

RLJ threatens to have daughter move into home with CSW to "take care of" her

RLJ slanders CSW to her son

Sleeping Nude

05/04/2012 - 06/05/2012

RLJ begins sleeping in the nude with CSW

Following/Stalking

05/30/2012

RLJ follows CSW to friend's house

"Clean Me"

06/01/2012

RLJ fingers grafitti on furniture in home

Home Safety

06/01/2012 - 10/10/2012

CSW asks that the doors be locked at night

RLJ replies, "Are you scared someone is going to come in and rape you? No one would rape you!"

RLJ leaves all windows and doors unlocked when not home

Belligerent Behavior

06/02/2012

RLJ calls police about noise level at neighboring house

RLJ proceeds to get drunk around bonfire in back yard

RLJ drives to complain to another neighbor about a bright light

RLJ lost glasses and watch

Accusations of Theft

06/07/2012 - 10/10/2012

CSW is embarrassed in front of friend by RLJ’s accusations of stealing his watch and eyeglasses

RLJ accuses CSW of stealing toilet paper

Thermostat Cover

06/24/2012

RLJ installs locking cover over thermostat

Vehicle Harassment

06/25/2012 - 08/11/2012

RLJ blocks CSW's car with his truck

RLJ gives CSW threats of nail strips in driveway

RLJ puts concrete 18"x18" stepping stones around driveway to prevent accidental driving into grass

RLJ tells CSW she has lost privilege of parking in driveway

Insurance Policy Removal

07/31/2012

RLJ removes CSW from Homeowner's Insurance Policy, stating they are divorced, and CSW no longer lived at their home

99% of the contents in home are CSW's belongings

Basement Lock

10/01/2012

RLJ installs keyed lock to basement door

CSW is separated from many personal belongings,
deprived of doing laundry, and
lacks protection in case of adverse weather

Packing

10/01/2012

RLJ begins boxing up CSW's personal belongings and storing in common areas

Financial

Joint Account

12/21/2011

RLJ adds CSW to checking account

RLJ asks that CSW not use the account on the following day

Estate Planning

03/22/2012

RLJ and CSW meet at the bank to plan their wills

CSW offers RLJ to be joint on her account

Reduce Income

05/03/2012

RLJ meets with Ameriprise Financial Advisors to reduce monthly income by $1000